Co-Authored by Kristen Day and Barbara Driehaus

When our dear friends at New Wave Feminists (NWF) invited us to visit the maternity shelters they operate in Juarez, Mexico, and El Paso, Texas, we knew we had to make it happen. It was an invaluable opportunity to witness firsthand their incredible work with some of the most vulnerable individuals in both countries—pregnant women, mothers, and children. Sharing in their mission and seeing the care and support they provide left a profound impact on us.

Years ago, Destiny Herndon-De La Rosa recognized the severe neglect these women faced and took action. With great empathy, she launched a campaign to provide supplies to the growing number of migrants in border camps, enduring unimaginable hardships while waiting for their chance to flee persecution and abuse.

In December 2018, Destiny and her “ragtag lady secular gang” raised $10,000 to support migrants in need, demonstrating their deep compassion. They filled two vans with essential supplies, hoping to make a meaningful difference at the border.

Inspired by their efforts, supporters rallied to do even more, and a generous donor offered an 18-wheeler to transport even more essentials—challenging Destiny to fill it up! The Bottles to the Border campaign ultimately raised an impressive $120,000 worth of supplies and $70,000 in additional aid to assist legal immigrants in temporary housing.

Destiny is an inspiring beacon of hope for women on the border. She powerfully reminds us, “Our humanity doesn’t begin at birth, and it doesn’t end at the border.” These are the same values Democrats for Life uphold.

This initial effort was not a one-time campaign of service and forgetfulness. New Wave Feminists expanded their mission by establishing two women’s shelters—one in Juarez and another in El Paso—to support pregnant women, mothers, and children.

NWF staff member Karina Breceda, a gentle-spirited yet fiercely determined advocate for life, lives in El Paso and shares Destiny’s deep commitment to uplifting vulnerable populations. She is a devoted presence in the region, tirelessly delivering food and other supplies and ensuring the shelters operate smoothly for those in need.

Pregnant and Parenting Women’s Shelters

Pregnancy support centers provide a compassionate and safe haven for mothers navigating difficult pregnancies. Democrats for Life deeply values the crucial work these centers do across the country.

Recently, we had the privilege of delivering 44,000 diapers and wipes to families in need in Chicago, offering a helping hand during a critical time in their lives.

During our visits to pregnancy centers nationwide, we repeatedly encounter heartwarming stories affirming the need to support women who desire to become mothers. Many women have faced the painful decision of previous abortions and now desperately wish to continue their second pregnancies.

We believe in empowering women to choose life—not succumbing to despair that convinces them abortion is their only option.

Migrants in the U.S. and Mexico face particularly complicated challenges and vulnerabilities. Many migrant women escape human trafficking and sexual assault, embarking on perilous journeys in search of safety and a better life.

It is crucial that we recognize their suffering and respond with compassion. A well-staffed, vibrant pregnancy resource center (PRC) stands as a beacon of hope, reflecting our responsibility to support and assist all in need.

The Stellar Shelter in Juarez sits behind a sturdy concrete wall with a secure gate, offering a sanctuary for families seeking safety. The landscape reflects the harshness of the region—dry, dusty, and rugged.

Yet, within the shelter’s courtyard of pebbles and sand, joy perseveres. Children—strangers before arriving—play soccer, bringing comfort and camaraderie into their uncertain lives.

Just a few months ago, a community of 80 people found refuge and support here, demonstrating the shelter’s vital role. Recently, a Haitian family joined, bringing stories of resilience and hope.

Destiny and Karina shared their heartfelt vision for the future—creating a health clinic, a playground for the children, and murals of hope to adorn the concrete walls.

Their aspirations reflect not just a desire for better living conditions, but a deep commitment to nurturing spirits and restoring dignity.

The bunk room is warm and inviting, with cozy beds and colorful bedding adding a sense of comfort.

The family room features vibrant tapestries gracing the walls, infusing warmth.

On the shelter’s rooftop, the breathtaking city view offers a moment of peace—a place where one can reflect as the sun sets in a brilliant canvas of colors.

For the women and children who arrive at this haven, it is more than just a shelter—it is a beacon of hope and opportunity.

Our Missing Sisters in Juarez

Crossing from El Paso into Juarez may feel similar at first—bustling stores, vibrant crowds—but the stark reality quickly becomes evident.

El Paso is one of the safest cities in the United States, yet Juarez is one of the most dangerous cities in the world—especially for women.

During our visit to a women’s shelter in Juarez, we were deeply moved by the everyday reality of the women there.

In the U.S., safety is often taken for granted. But in Juarez, the shadow of loss looms large. Many women know someone who has gone missing.

As we drove back toward the United States border, the sight was heartbreaking—pink crosses adorning parking meters, telephone poles, and buildings.

Each pink cross marks where a woman’s body was found—sometimes in pairs.

These silent witnesses tell stories of sorrow and remembrance.

The atmosphere in our car turned somber, weighed down by the grief of countless lost lives.

These are the disappearing women of Juarez, where femicide—the killing of a woman because of her gender—occurs with horrific frequency.

Discussion with Colegio de la Frontera Norte (COLEF)

The election of Donald Trump brought border issues to the forefront.

However, cuts to USAID and other crucial programs supporting vulnerable populations in America and abroad have been deeply concerning.

In addition, challenges to birthright citizenship raise fears about families being torn apart and uncertain futures for many children.

To address these concerns, Karina and Cindy Trejo arranged a discussion at Colegio de la Frontera Norte (COLEF)—a renowned border-focused research center.

Together with our Mexican counterparts, we explored the grave consequences of denying birthright citizenship and how it threatens migrants’ dignity and legal protection.

One particularly devastating example is the Dominican Republic’s 2013 decision to retroactively revoke citizenship from Haitian children born there—leaving thousands stateless.

We heard firsthand from Elena Lorac, one such stateless woman, caught in a legal and emotional limbo.

In 2022, the Dominican Republic began mass deportations, displacing over 120,000 people who had only ever known the Dominican Republic as home.

These real-life examples demonstrate the dire consequences of policy changes on families, identities, and futures.

We will continue advocating for policies that respect the human dignity of all people—whether in the womb, at the border, or beyond.

Effects on local communities

During our time in Texas and Mexico, we heard firsthand how border policies affect everyday workers, businesses, and families.

Mexican workers who traditionally crossed the border daily for jobs in landscaping, construction, and domestic work have disappeared.

One farm owner lamented the loss of seasonal workers, unsure how she will harvest her crops this year.

These harsh realities reinforce the urgent need for compassionate policies that honor the dignity and contributions of all individuals—regardless of their immigration status.

Our goal is clear: compassionate, human-centered policies that reflect our commitment to justice, dignity, and respect for all.